Popular fetishes you don’t have to hide


What is a fetish? The true definition of a fetish is when a person requires the object, body part or play/act to feel sexually stimulated. Most people, however, would consider themselves having a fetish even without an obsession with something. Here are some of the most common fetishes around.

Domination & Submission

More common then you think! It doesn’t have to involve whipping and cutting. Even being tied up falls under this category. Most people enjoy this to some degree. That’s probably why 50 Shades of Grey became so popular.



Foot fetishes and foot worship is where someone gets off at the sight, smell or taste of your feet. All it takes is some interaction with this body part for them to receive sexual pleasure or orgasm.



Having a hair fetish is fairly common. Some people are attracted to certain hairstyles, while others enjoy certain hair colors and textures. For others it’s the feel of hair as it caresses their body that gets them off.


Cross Dressing

Getting off by wearing clothing of the opposite sex is common within the gay and straight crowd. For some, the turn on is doing something “forbidden”. In other cases, men will wear an item of clothing from someone they’ve been with as a reminder of the sexual encounter.


Used Panties

A common fetish where the panties have been worn by someone and discharge is left. Humans are visual and a reminder of a special sexual occasion can turn them on and get them off in no time! Used panties are enjoyed for its scent and taste and are frequently requested by sexual partners who aren’t physically together. This fetish is very common and there are many sites where you can sell & buy used panties.


Voyeurism and Exhibitionism

According to some studies, 1 out of 3 people enjoy watching others having sex or exhibiting themselves. However, voyeurism seems to be male dominated, which is demonstrated with the adult entertainment industry’s audience being 80% male.


Role Play & Dress Ups

Role-plays require sexual partners to act out their fantasies. There’s the typical firefight, handyman, teacher and many people have a rape scenario (it goes along with BDSM). It could involve a specific location and many people enjoy costumes as it makes the fantasy more real. Even without a specific scenarios, sexual costumes are super sexy and a turn on and fetish in their own right!


Fetishes are fairly common as we all have something we are attracted too. You may not want to talk about it with your parents but there’s no need to feel awkward about it. They may even have some fetishes of their own! 

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IMG_1994 (2)24/7 Anal Stretching Ring ($40.76)

Back in November I received a huge box of goodies from Meo.  In the huge box was the 24/7 anal stretching ring in the small size. It comes in extra small, small, medium, large, extra large and extra extra large. The small size is way too big for me anally at the moment, so I personally like using it vaginally. The small is 1 2/5 inches in diameter! I like to wear it while I’m doing chores around the house, it gives me a nice full feeling. The anal stretching ring is made out of high-grade aluminum. Aluminum is very hard, like glass. So if you aren’t into hard toys, this won’t be for you! It has a smooth finish which makes the insertion a bit easier then if it had texture! Since it’s made from aluminum, you can use any kind of lubricant with it and it’s really easy to clean! You can use soap and water, a 10% bleach solution, put it on the top rack of your dishwasher with no soap or boil it! If you do choose to boil it, beware that it will be very hot for a while! The best thing about this plug being made from aluminum is that is doesn’t collect pet hair like silicone does! The design of this plug is pretty simple, it has a pretty standard butt plug shape. The thing that attracts most people is the fact that there’s a hole in the base of this plug, which makes it ideal for 24/7 use hence the name!

IMG_1953 (2)Man Cunt Hybrid Lube ($18.59)
Also in the huge box of goodies that I received from Meo was the Man Cunt hybrid lube. It’s a hybrid lube containing a bit of silicone lube and a bit of water based lube. If you’re worried about it possibly ruining your silicone toys since it does have silicone lube in it, I recommend doing a spot test on the bottom of the base! I did a spot tested on the Tantus Echo Handle and Pleasure Works Maven and both were fine. It feels really nice and leaves my skin soft. Most silicone lubes that I’ve used are really hard to get off my skin, but the Man Cunt hybrid lube is very easy to clean off! It’s water-soluble, white and creamy, so it kind of resembles cum. Every time I’ve used it, it seems to last a pretty decent amount of time! This lube is compatible with condoms. The ingredients in this lube are Aqua, Glycerin, Propylene Glycol, Cyclomethicone, Sodium Acrylate/Acryloyldimethyl Taurate, Dimethiconol, Isohexadecane, Polysorbate 80, Hydroxyethylcellulose, Phenoxyethanol, Ethylhexylglycerin, CI77897, CI19140. The packaging for this lube is nice. It’s a pump bottle, so it’s easy to use.

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Cock Candy Oral Sex Gels ($30.37 for all five or $7.59 each)

The Cock Candy oral sex gels are a fun way to spice up giving oral sex or when practicing your blowjob skills on a toy. They come in five different flavors; Strawberry, Cherry, Piña Colada, Vanilla and Strawberry-Kiwi. The strawberry is a light pink color and reminds me of those little strawberry candies in the cute packaging. The cherry is a dark pink color and tastes like cherry cough drops to me, this one is probably my least favorite! The Piña Colada is a white color and tastes very coconutty! The vanilla is a yellow color, and has a very sweet smell to it! The IMG_1926 (2)taste reminds me of a cupcake. Lastly, the strawberry-kiwi is my favorite! It’s a green color and honestly I’m not sure how to describe the taste of this one, it’s just so yummy. These gels are water based and aren’t runny which is nice! The ingredients in these gels are Glycerin, Aqua , Hydroxypropyl Guar, Propylene Glycol, Panthenol, Sodium Sacharin, Citric Acid, Aroma (Flavor). The packaging for these gels are pretty simple. They come in a pop top bottle, which can be annoying to open at times. I highly recommend these gels, they all smell amazing and taste great!


I received these products free of charge in exchange for an unbiased review from Meo


How to find a good sex shop


Buying sex toys can be awkward. Especially if you’ve walked into a sex shop, that is only interested in selling you something…anything. However if you’re lucky enough to find the right sex shop, each visit can be fun, full of information and discovery. Here are a few tips on how to find a good sex shop near you.

  1. Good customer service and non-pushy staff

The worst part of sex toy shopping is having someone pounce on you and pushing products that you’re clearly not interested in! Or even worst, being told that every product is ‘amazing’. When the staff is trained well, they should be asking you questions about what you are looking for and helping you find the right toy. They should also be knowledgeable about toys, materials etc.

  1. Clean and clear displays

I like it when a sex shop displays their products in a simple and clean matter. To me, it shows that they care about the products they stock and want to sell the best in the market. When I walk into a store that has a million products everywhere, I feel like their main purpose is to turn a profit without regard to the quality and safety standards.

  1. Variety

A variety of toys can make shopping more fun and stock rotation means that every time you come back there could be something new! There should be a range of toys falling into different categories; couples, anal, g-spot etc. The price range should also cover all sorts of budgets.

  1. Inclusion

When walking into a sex shop you shouldn’t feel out of place regardless of sexual preference. It’s supposed to be a place where you can be open about your sexual desires. If you feel uncomfortable, then it probably isn’t the right sex shop for you.


It’s hard finding a reputable sex store, especially if you live in a rural area where options are limited. In these cases I would suggest a reputable online store on Google. For my non-American readers, check out these sites that have made a list of reputable sex shops in your local areas: sex shops in Sydney for my Australian readers, sex shops in Toronto for my Canadians readers, and check out this list of good sex shops in London if you live in the UK.


Keep in mind that shop assistants also react to your behavior. The more natural you feel and behave that more open and helpful they will be.

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